Heart of Intimacy
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Oaxacan Coast · A 4-Night Luxury Immersion · Online Couple's Therapy

The Heart of Intimacy

A luxury couple's immersion in sensuality, connection, and bringing back the spark.

An invitation

Most couples don't lose love. They lose connection, presence, and the ability to truly feel each other.

The Heart of Intimacy is a refined, deeply held four night luxury immersion on the Oaxacan coast for couples who know something more is possible and are ready to step toward it. Through relational therapy, somatic work, sensual practices, tantric initiation, and carefully guided ceremonial space, you are led back into presence, honesty, and the kind of connection that is felt in the body, not just understood in the mind.

This is where the spark returns, not as something fleeting, but as something deeper, steadier, and fully alive between you.

The Experience

A luxury container designed for two.

Every element is curated, private, and tuned to the rhythm of your relationship. Held with care from arrival to integration.

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A private, high-touch luxury experience designed for one couple at a time

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A guided couples medicine ceremony to deepen connection and emotional truth

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Tantric initiation into presence, polarity, and embodied sensuality

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Couples somatic therapy to release tension and restore physical connection

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Relational therapy tailored to your unique dynamic and challenges

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Intimate rituals of touch, communication, and shared presence

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A balance of structure and spaciousness for rest, play, and integration

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Exclusive dining at one of the finest restaurants on the Oaxacan coast

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A discreet, safe, and beautifully held container for deep relational work

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Ceremony · Touch · Presence

Slow down. Soften. Bring back the spark.

A guided medicine ceremony, tantric initiation, and couples somatic bodywork, all woven together with shared rituals, exquisite private catered meals on the coast, and the spaciousness to simply be in each other's presence.

Included

Everything is held, so you can simply arrive.

Logistics, rhythm, and ritual are all attended to with care. Your only task is to be here, together.

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    4 nights of private luxury accommodation on the Oaxacan coast (one arrival night plus 3 days of experience)

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    Two pre-experience intake and therapy calls

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    Private transport to and from Puerto Escondido Airport (PXM)

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    All meals catered privately during the 3 days of experience

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    Dinner at one of the Oaxacan coast's most exclusive restaurants

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    A guided couples medicine ceremony

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    A tantric initiation into polarity, presence, and sacred sensuality

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    Spacious guided integration of the peak experience

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    Relational therapy sessions tailored to your dynamic

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    Couples somatic therapy including bodywork and massage

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    Tools and practices to cultivate and sharpen intimacy and connection

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    Insights and teachings to elevate sex from the mundane to the sacred

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    Personalized integration guidance and support

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    The option to continue working with René and Atabey post-retreat

The rhythm

Four nights, woven slowly.

An arrival night to land, then three days of held experience. A balance of structure and spaciousness. Nothing is rushed. Each day opens, deepens, and closes with intention.

Day One · Arrival

Land & Soften

You arrive at your private luxury accommodation along the Oaxacan coast, where the pace immediately softens. This first day is spacious and unstructured, an invitation to land, rest, and begin attuning to each other again. Light nourishment is provided; meals are on your own as you gently transition into the experience.

Day Two · Opening, Intimacy & Devotion

The Spark Returns

The day opens with intention setting and relational therapy that deepens trust, communication, and emotional connection. In the evening, a sensual cooking experience inspired by the Oaxacan coast, followed by a tantric initiation into presence, polarity, conscious touch, and the refined art of sensuality between you.

Day Three · Somatic Healing & Ceremony

The Medicine

The body opens, and so do the deeper layers of the relationship. Couples somatic therapy, intentional touch, and guided practices soften protective patterns and increase your capacity to feel and receive. In the evening, a carefully held ceremonial medicine space designed to deepen emotional truth, sensuality, and intimacy.

Day Four · Integration & Closing

Carrying It Home

The final day is devoted to integration, reflection, and grounding the peak experience into your relationship. The container closes with a sunset ritual and an exclusive dinner at one of the coast's most refined restaurants, a moment to honor what has shifted and step forward with greater connection and depth.

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The setting

The Oaxacan coast, held just for you.

Private luxury accommodation on a stretch of coastline known for its quiet beauty. All meals catered privately during the three days of experience, plus one dinner at one of the most exclusive restaurants in the region. A discreet, beautifully held container for deep relational work.

*Specific space subject to availability.

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In their words

What couples carry home.

We arrived carrying years of quiet distance and left holding each other like the first time. Atabey and René held a luxurious, sensual container so safe that nothing felt impossible.
M. & J., Brooklyn, NY
The ceremony cracked us open with the gentlest hands. We finally said the things we had been afraid of saying, and were met with love on the other side.
S. & D., Mexico City
Three days that recalibrated a decade of marriage. The bodywork, the rituals, the slowness. We came home different people, in love again, with the spark fully back.
L. & A., Los Angeles, CA

Your facilitators

Held by Atabey & René.

Two practitioners with deep roots in tantra, ceremony, somatic work, and the art of being fully present with another human being.

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Atabey

A lover of life, devoted to presence.

I have always been a lover of life, drawn to the depths of intimacy, presence, and what it truly means to feel and connect.

Over more than a decade, I have devoted myself to the study and practice of tantra, bodywork, breath, deep presence, and relational work with medicine, refining an approach rooted in both lived experience and diverse traditions.

This immersion is an invitation into that work: a sensual, luxurious space where couples can slow down, soften, and rediscover each other with honesty, depth, and care.


René

A grounded guide, devoted to nervous system wisdom.

René is devoted to emotional healing and relational reconnection, guiding couples through somatic therapy, bodywork, and trauma-informed practices.

Her approach weaves together years of training in somatic work, energy healing, and plant medicine traditions, including time spent in the Peruvian Amazon and the Wirikuta desert.

She holds a grounded, intuitive space where couples can release what no longer serves and reconnect with clarity, trust, and depth.

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Our shared practice

"Most couples don't lose love. They lose connection. Our work is to gently bring you back to feeling, back to sensuality, and back to each other."

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Discreet · Intentional · Yours alone

One couple at a time. Always.

Every ritual, conversation, and meal is shaped around your relationship: your edges, your tenderness, your particular way of being in love.

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Three ways in

Choose the depth of your journey.

Every package begins with a private discovery call with Atabey or René.

In-Person Immersion

$11,000

Four nights on the Oaxacan coast, designed entirely around you as a couple.

  • 4 nights of private accommodation (arrival night plus 3 days of experience)
  • Two pre-retreat intake & therapy calls
  • Private transport to & from Puerto Escondido Airport (PXM)
  • All meals catered privately during the 3 days of experience
  • Guided couples medicine ceremony
  • One tantric initiation & somatic bodywork
  • One dinner at one of the coast's most exclusive restaurants
  • Spacious guided integration of the peak experience
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The Complete Journey

$22,000

The in-person luxury immersion plus three months of dedicated therapy to fully integrate it.

  • Everything in the In-Person Immersion
  • 3 months of relational therapy (9 calls)
  • Monthly online ceremonies
  • Ongoing personalized integration support
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Online Container

$15,000

Three months of devoted therapy and ceremony, wherever you are in the world.

  • 6 biweekly therapy sessions for couples
  • 3 monthly online ceremonies (9 calls total)
  • 60 to 90 min sessions with Atabey, René, or both
  • Tools, practices, and integration guidance
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All packages begin with a private discovery call. Pricing is in USD.

Couples we've held

We arrived carrying years of quiet distance and left holding each other like the first time. Atabey and René held a luxurious, sensual container so safe that nothing felt impossible.
M. & J., Brooklyn, NY
The ceremony cracked us open with the gentlest hands. We finally said the things we had been afraid of saying, and were met with love on the other side.
S. & D., Mexico City
Three days that recalibrated a decade of marriage. The bodywork, the rituals, the slowness. We came home different people, in love again, with the spark fully back.
L. & A., Los Angeles, CA
More than a retreat. A re-initiation into our own sensuality and connection. The follow-up therapy kept the fire we lit on the coast burning back home.
K. & R., Austin, TX
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Questions

Honest answers to start.

Begin

Begin where you are.

A private discovery call with Atabey or René is the first step. No pressure, no obligation. Just an honest, sensual conversation about what is possible for the two of you.

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